Changing people's mentality is a difficult choice.Restricting where a girl goes,what she wears.what time she goes ,what she drink,is an easier one.
So ,our coward society always chooses the easier option.
But the problem is that the easier option doesn't actully solve the problem.
If she wears jeans and a Top ,she gets raped.
If she wears a saree ,she gets raped.
If she wears a burkha ,she gets raped .So the problem isn't with her dressing.
If she's 7 ,she gets raped,if she's 17,she gets raped if she's 70 ,she gets raped.so the problem is not with her age .
If she's HINDU,she gets raped ,if she's MUSLIM ,she gets raped .If she's christian ,she gets raped.so the problem is not her religion .
If she's a MOTHER ,she gets raped .If she's a WIFE ,she gets raped .If She's DOUGHTER ,she gets raped .so the problem doesn't lie with her societal status .
So the what is the problem ?
The real problem is the RAPIST .Rape has nothing to do with the victim and everything to do with the rapist .
Until we as a society understand that and stop blaming the victim ,stop making excuses for the rapist.And start making stricter laws to punish the rapist .Nothing is going to change
So ,our coward society always chooses the easier option.
But the problem is that the easier option doesn't actully solve the problem.
If she wears jeans and a Top ,she gets raped.
If she wears a saree ,she gets raped.
If she wears a burkha ,she gets raped .So the problem isn't with her dressing.
If she's 7 ,she gets raped,if she's 17,she gets raped if she's 70 ,she gets raped.so the problem is not with her age .
If she's HINDU,she gets raped ,if she's MUSLIM ,she gets raped .If she's christian ,she gets raped.so the problem is not her religion .
If she's a MOTHER ,she gets raped .If she's a WIFE ,she gets raped .If She's DOUGHTER ,she gets raped .so the problem doesn't lie with her societal status .
So the what is the problem ?
The real problem is the RAPIST .Rape has nothing to do with the victim and everything to do with the rapist .
Until we as a society understand that and stop blaming the victim ,stop making excuses for the rapist.And start making stricter laws to punish the rapist .Nothing is going to change
